Martina
wrote:
Hi,
my name is Martina and i am making a band with my 3 friends.
Could you send me back some advice? we are trying to keep
it a secret. Is that a good thing or should we tell people.
I am ten by the way.
~ Martina
Don
replied:
hey
martina! thanks for reaching out. well sooner or later people
need to know you are in a great band so they can see you play,
right? maybe save the secret until you are ready for your
first show and then give out flyers to people to come see
a new, hot band that everyone already knows but they didn't
know they did! or something funny like that. and then when
people get there, you guys all wait in the audience and have
someone introduce the band and you 4 pop out of the crowd!
that would be cool!!! and people will laugh or say "you
can't play!!!!" but you guys will have rehearsed and
committed yourselves to kicking butt and impress everyone.
then after the show you can walk around picking up people's
jaws because you made them drop!!
how's
that for a show?
now,
about getting ready. when i was ten i was in a band with 3
friends and we practiced 3 to 4 times a week together and
we all practiced EVERY day on our own. anything you truly
want to be good at takes work and you have to want to be the
best. the way i felt was that i didn't want to be embarrassed
and i couldn't wait for people to be like, "wow!!! you
guys are great!" i never wanted them to add "...for
ten year olds!" so we always made sure we were good enough
to play with older bands. our first show was st. patty's day
at a bar. it was packed and we came on and people were looking
at us like little kids. well, we broke into some songs and
everyone just stopped thinking of us as kids.
promise
me backstage passes? or let MIGGS open for you!!!
Salman
wrote:
hey
i am starting a new band called 13 kids, but i dont know what
to do. i am a lead singer and i am shy because if i go on
the stage, people will make fun of me.
Don
replied:
pretty much you play music, and someone is going to make fun
of you or put you down. if you don't like that, you're not
going to want to do this for a living!!! LOL! music is a contact
sport, like life! the magic happens when it connects from
your "vision" into someone else's head. and as long
as they respond, you're cool. who cares what they think? if
you have passion and conviction, have the COURAGE to go along
with it! if you're good, the jeers become cheers.....
ask the BIGGEST names in music, and one driving force many
have in common is that fear of rejection or loneliness or
feeling like an outsider. we are all a little bit on the outside,
because we work so hard at what we do. while other people
are playing video games, we're writing or practicing. on the
weekends when everyone is having fun, we're the ones MAKING
that fun!
now,
what you do as the lead singer is you be YOU. as much YOU
as you can be. if you like purple hair and singing about your
cat then do it! LOL watch the great lead singers of the past
30 years and see what makes them compelling. why do you have
to watch them? then create your own thing. be fearless, too.
Leila
wrote:
hi.
my name is leila and i really need help on starting a band,
because i don't have any instruments and i need money, but
i'm only 14 so it's hard getting lots of money cause instruments
are expensive!! i love to sing and i'm pretty good!!!!!! and
my friend plays guitar!!! but how to i start performing????
how do i like get out there??? how do i start???? like if
i'm at home with my friend and we're just playing music and
singing that's all we can do for now!!! please help usss!!
thanks alot!!!
Don
replied:
hey there
leila (nice name!)-
an
instrument is important to playing!!! LOL! you need to save
your money and get a guitar. i remember i saved about $100
and bought a TERRIBLE guitar but it was mine, and i played
it non-stop. then when i was able to get a better one, i improved
really fast, because i struggled on a bad instrument for a
while.
what
i would suggest while you're saving is to go online and find
EVERYTHING you can on playing, read interviews, watch instructional
videos, look at how chords are made and try to form your hands
for the chord. why? because visualization is so important
in practicing and improving quickly at something. i used to
sit on the school bus and picture the A chord or my strumming
pattern or the scale. so when i picked up the instrument it
seemed familiar to me already. in japan i believe there is
a methodology where students aren't allowed to actually touch
the violin for a certain amount of YEARS until they learn
all of the theory and nuances of music and when they finally
can play, it's like someone breaking a dam!!!
now,
performing is a whole other bag. there is no one style that
works or that everyone likes, so be yourself or the self you
want people to see when you're on stage, and work hard. videotape
yourself and critique it. was it as good as your favorite
performers? what can you improve? what are your strengths?
have others tell you what they like and the things they like
least. keep building and growing.
i
wanted to play so bad that i would put concerts on at my house
in the backyard! by 10 i was performing in clubs. it was just
the only thing i cared about with my free time. have passion
for it, work hard and make sure it's fun, too!
feel
free to ask more and if you're in the Bay area, come see us
november 24th at cafe du nord and say hi and we can talk about
what i do to prepare for a show like this.
thanks!!!
and dream out loud...
Calli
wrote:
Hey,
I am 12 years old and I LOVE to sing!! I try to write songs
but I don't know how!! I sing to my radio every minute..even
when doing homework!! I want to be famous, but I don't know
if I sing well!!! Do you know any way that I can start to
carry this out a little more?!? I can find other singers and
maybe a guitarist out of my friends, but I would like to be
the band leader and lead singer! I would also like to play
guitar, and maybe drums you know how it is you sitch around!!
Please help me music is my life!! If it helps, I live in Aiken
SC if you know anyone that can listen to me and my friends
sing and stuff, please let me know!! I am trying to be famous
by 15. I am now 12 please help me!!
~Calli D'Andria~
Don
replied:
Calli!
i
love that you love to sing! we need more singers with soul!
i say your focus should be to be GREAT and the fame will follow.
fame is a tricky thing. some people have fame and no substance
so that is fleeting. i want you to be GREAT at your art and
then have the world see it! if it's singing, performing, writing-
WHATEVER... just be GREAT. so shift your focus from fame to
excellence and i think you'll be setting yourself up for success
and you will build TRUE fans along the way.
how
is your singing on a formal level? get that down. do you have
your own style? can you hear "pitch" and "harmony"?
pick songs you love and do them in YOUR version, not the original
singer so it showcases your talent. SING WITH A MICROPHONE
TO GET USED TO THAT.
then
worry about guitar and writing and drums! if your timeline
is by 15, you are not giving yourself a lot of time! all you
can do is your best and be prepared when the opportunity arises.
fame is a mix of talent and timing. be prepared! truly being
great means to sacrifice other things. i used to practice
12 hours a day. that leaves little time for TV or fooling
around after school but i knew that there was a kid somewhere
who wanted it more than me and worked harder, so i always
thought of that when i wanted to waste too much time playing
video games or something!
as
you're perfecting your craft, meet like-minded people to support
you if you want to be the leader. if you're the leader, you
still need smart, passionate people surrounding you. pick
people who complement you. make sure they are good at the
things you aren't good at! and as the leader, be the most
prepared, and know what you want. people want to follow someone
who knows what they want!
lots
to think about. start with this and keep in touch with me
with questions! i look forward to your success...
Elizabeth
wrote:
Hi my
name is Elizabeth, and I’m doing a big project in music.
I was wondering is professional musician the same thing as
singer, songwriter, and guitarists, does it include all of
these or is it different?
Don
replied:
hello
elizabeth. professional musician encompasses all of the above:
singer, guitarist, drummer. if we're being PAID for our art
or contribution, we are considered "professional".
i do know some people who say "professional singer"
or whatever their instrument is but that is simply to be sure
whoever is reading it KNOWS what they do clearly. "musician"
doesn't give the whole story!
i
hope that answers the question and you get an A with this
project!
dream
out loud,
don miggs
Kathryn
and Morgan wrote:
Okay,
so we are Kathryn and Morgan~ we are trying to start a band
of our own called 'Secrit 17'! (secret is spelled wrong on
purpose.) haha~ anyway, we were wondering if you had any tips
to help us with anything at all...from song writing-to-performing
in front of an audience...this would be really helpful! Thank
you in advance, you are a life-saver!
kat
Don
replied:
hey there
girls!
first,
thanks for emailing me! i appreciate it.
now, your
first sentence says "we are TRYING to start a band".
NO!!!! you ARE starting a band.
i read
a quote once that yoda from star wars said (how funny is it
that i'm quoting YODA?). he said "do or don't, there
is no try"
so DO
IT.
now,
you've got your band. the thing that you do is PRACTICE, PRACTICE,
PRACTICE. play togehter, play alone, play with the drummer
and bassist alone, then the guitarist and drummer. whatever.
just know your parts inside and out so mistakes are limited.
and band rehearsals are not meant for you to learn your parts
but to learn to play them together well. if people don't know
their parts at rehearsal, they are wasting time!
and when
you are doing individual practice, play slow and learn fast.
and be focused!
and then
you go out and play a million shows. tape the shows- music
and performance and watch it over and over again and beat
yourselves up!!! make it a GREAT show and sound. give people
a reason to talk about you in school. give them a show and
ignore the record labels and managers and everyone until you
are so good that they come find you!!!!
and have
fun. it's work. hard work and the big artists sacrifice a
lot to get to the top but it's also the best job ever so enjoy
it....
i love your name, by the way!!!!
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